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ENM 101: What It Is, What It Isn't, and How to Know If It's Worth Exploring Apr 01, 2026

 

 

I have been in the lifestyle for about a decade.

My first attempt ended my marriage, not because ENM doesn't work, but because I had no idea what I was doing, why I was doing it, or what I actu...

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Lord of the Rings and the Night I Learned to Always Pack a Kit Mar 25, 2026

 

Origin Story, Part 4: My first solo experience with my current partner's blessing. There was a Tinder profile, a guard at the front desk, and a man who made eye contact with his television the enti...

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