Ready to Stop Keeping it a Secret?

In 30 days, you'll go from secretly wanting ENM and fearing you'll ruin everything to having calm, honest conversations with your partner.

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This is for you if

  • You’re in a loving, committed monogamous relationship 
  • You’re curious about ENM or opening up, but terrified to say it out loud 
  • You’ve dropped hints or made jokes and they didn’t land well 
  • You worry your partner will think you’re already cheating or that they’re “not enough
  • You don’t want to blow up your relationship… but you also don’t want to keep pretending these desires don’t exist 

Right now you might be

  • Secretly scrolling dating apps “just to see what’s out there” 
  • Getting into fights about flirting, porn, or “micro-cheating” 
  • Afraid that if you bring up ENM, they’ll leave, shut down, or never look at you the same way again 
  • Wondering if you’ll have to leave the relationship one day just to feel sexually or emotionally fulfilled  

What you get

Clarity

Get clear on what you actually want and why

Understanding

Understand your partner’s likely fears so you can speak to them with care 

Worksheets

Design a “no-regret” first conversation you can feel proud of

Skills

Learn how to handle their reactions without panicking or shutting down 

Don't make the biggest mistake

Staying silent is the biggest mistake I see people make. It doesn't make the desire go away. It just quietly erodes trust, connection and your own sense of truth and can breed resentment on both sides.

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Here's what's inside

  1. Module 1: Get Honest With Yourself

    3 lessons
    1. Lesson 1: What do you actually want?
    2. Lesson 2: Is this about ENM or something else?
    3. Lesson 3: Your non-negotiables, flex points and deal breakers

  2. Module 2: Understanding your partner’s fears and needs

    3 lessons
    1. Lesson 1: See ENM through your partners eyes
    2. Lesson 2: Map their fears without making them the villain
    3. Lesson 3: What your partner actually needs to hear

  3. Module 3: Design your no-regret first conversation

    4 lessons
    1. Lesson 1: Stop Blurting, start planning
    2. Lesson 2: Choose the right time, place and format
    3. Lesson 3: Build your first conversation script
    4. Lesson 4: Questions to ask (so it’s not a monologue)

  4. Module 4: Having the talks and handling reactions

    4 lessons
    1. Lesson 1: Expect reactions
    2. Lesson 2: De-escalation scripts for tough moments
    3. Lesson 3: When to pause, when to continue
    4. Lesson 4: Aftercare for both of you

  5. Module 5: Co-create the fist low-pressure step

    4 lessons
    1. Lesson 1: Define “success” beyond a yes
    2. Lesson 2: Design a truly low-pressure first step
    3. Lesson 3: Make simple, clear agreements
    4. Lesson 4: What to do if the answer is “not now” or “no"

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$97 gets you lifetime access, all worksheets and every future update to the course, before the price doubles.

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